This morning I went grocery shopping. It was a normal shopping experience. I have become accustomed to people who look annoyed that there is someone else shopping in the same store and glaring at me because I am walking where they want to be walking.
I try to be considerate of others, not block aisles etc, but since I am shopping too, I am fairly certain I have the right to walk down the aisles and stop to take an item off the shelf. Today more than once people were scowling at me as though I had no right to be there. Now you might be wondering if perhaps my unruly children were the cause of the hairy eyeballs...but since I was flying solo... unless I had my dress tucked into my tights (which I did not, it's cold enough here that I would have noticed that breeze) there was really no reason for all the scowling.
I think people just scowl through their daily life. Really. I bet they don't even realize they're doing it. Or do I just bring out the scowl in everyone? Again, dress isn't tucked into my tights, I bathe daily and even do a light spritz of Coach "Poppy"...so I don't think it's always just my presence causing the scowls...and it really isn't all about me. I do get that.
So why so glum? I realize the economy is not so hot. I know people have problems. Newsflash! We all have problems. I know people are in pain, physical and emotional. I'm not saying walk around like grinning idiots. I'm just humbly suggesting that scowling through your day isn't exactly beneficial to your health or your wrinkles. (Not to mention that it takes more muscles to frown that smile...I read that somewhere.)
I admit I am not always smiley and I am pretty sure I was glaring holes through the woman in front of me in line who was bad mouthing all young people as lazy. (I wanted to tell her about the teenagers I have known who work hard in school, extracurricular activities, in their churches and even as cashiers in the supermarket where I see them smiling and efficiently working.)
I try to greet life with an open and hopefully pleasant mindset. I don't know what your struggles are and you don't know mine, but we are all human and we can at least be courteous and moderately pleasant to those we meet. (Again, not grinning idiots, just ... human, compassionate even.)
What if we followed Carole King's lyrics...
You've got to get up every morning, with a smile on your face and show the world all the love in your heart. Then people are gonna treat you better. You're gonna find, yes you will, that you're beautiful, as you feel.